(Why Not?) #55: Never give up . . .

We all have times where we have wondered – should I give up?

Some think that and do, while others think that and don't. Why is that, what causes some to give up and others won't, and does it really matter? Now those three aspects are good to consider.

As to how best to do so?

I will offer up these 3 considerations and I hope they help get you to thinking.

First – are there times when we should give up? Yes, it is when we realize that no matter what we do, the outcome of the challenge at hand will not go as we want – which ties into the embrace – I will fight the good fight another day.

Second – for the don't give up people – that unfolds when there is a situation that is so hard, frustrating or anger driving that we will do whatever it takes. It could be a danger against ourselves, a loved one, or an innocent; or it could be wrong that just rips away at what we think is right and we take it on.

And as to the third – the does it matter aspect? Which is always yes. For, if you give up often on tough things, you're creating a “I can't do it” nuance within your character (not good). If you stop or give up on those things that you realize – maybe there is a better way or a better time to take this on – you're embracing the reliance on wisdom within your character and you are realizing that somethings may not be now, but may be later. You will be working to leverage your strengths and not giving way to any fears.

So think, decide appropriately and remember . . . “Love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, and with all your mind. This is the greatest and most important commandment. The second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets depend on these two commandments”

(Matthew 22:37–40).